I was driving home from school last Friday, when I decided to stop by the Giant on Pantops to pick up some food (by “food” I of course mean ice cream). So I park my car and begin the exhausting walk up an entire row of the parking lot - there was a big truck parked at the head of the row, taking up a bunch of spaces and forcing everyone else to park further down. As I got closer to the truck, I realized that it was a blood donation truck from Virginia Blood Services - that annoying jingle from their radio advertisements immediately entered my head.
I gave a sigh of semi-disgust as I walked by the truck and towards the sliding doors of the grocery store. But then a woman stops me before I can reach the safety of the air-conditioned produce isles; “Do you want to give blood today?” she asked.
I struggled for an excuse not to give blood… Ah, my age! “Sorry, I think I’m too young.”
“Oh, are you seventeen?” I nodded. “Well that’s not too young!” the woman exclaimed with a smile.
Damnit, I should have said I was sixteen… You see, despite my becoming increasingly extroverted over the past few years, I still felt it a tad bit extreme to reply with, “Well, I may not be too young, but I am too gay.”
Guidelines that the Food and Drug Administration have set down to blood collection centers seem to have a problem with homosexuals. Virginia Blood Services, in particular, will not let “any man who has had sexual contact with another man, even once, since 1977″ donate blood. This provision was added in the 1980s to combat the growing HIV epidemic, and in the 1980s, I may have been understanding of it. But all blood donated in the united states is now tested for HIV.
To put this in perspective of how discriminatory this really is, let’s look at some of the people who are allowed to donate blood: people who have had syphilis or gonorrhea (as long as it was over 12 months ago); oh, and people who have sex with prostitutes, given that it’s been at least 12 months since they’ve done so. In other words, someone who has had sex with 50 different prostitutes can donate blood, as long as they wait a year, whereas a homosexual male who has had sex with his long-term partner, even if they used protection, and has never had an STD, could not.
People, that’s utter crap. And collection centers know it. But even VBS hides the language about gays under a section called “Lifestyle choices.” So despite all the advertisements the Red Cross and other centers put out there about how important it is to donate blood, how you could save a life - they’re excluding a fifth of the population over assumptions of promiscuity (I’m sorry, do we need to review how people who have sex with prostitutes are still allowed to donate, or blood drives in the sexual hotbeds that are high schools?).
Well, if you guys don’t think our blood’s worth it, go ahead and bar us from donating. But don’t complain about blood shortages when you could have had ours.